New site, new sound!

I started all of this to try and celebrate a well known, but misunderstood culture around the world. We call it The Lifestyle. A lot of people use that term, but most people who hear it know it is primarily refers to a social and sexual culture where adults, typically couples (but also singles), consensually engage in sexual or romantic experiences with others—with honesty, transparency, and mutual agreement at the center.

It’s not just about sex; it’s a community, set of norms, and shared understanding of how to navigate experiences outside traditional monogamy. But it also includes the non-swinging aspects! Voyeurs, Exhibitionists, Nudists, and many many other free spirits who put their enjoyment and carefree mindset over judgement and close minded biases! I've been in the lifestyle for years. But I was not active until a trip to Las Vegas in which I met a couple who really transcended the sex only stereotypes of the lifestyle. Alyssa was such a breath of fresh air from all the negative interactions I had dealt with in the past. To be clear, MOST of my interactions in the lifestyle were overwhelmingly positive OR educational (I use that term because sometimes you find things you don't like, but its up to you to not let them put a damper on your outlook!) But Alyssa (and her husband J) truly showed what a professional lifestyle couple should be like. They treated me and my other girlfriends on the trip as people, not objects they were trying to hook up with. They had incredible insight into the red flags and warning signs of toxic people who try to get into the lifestyle. They didn't act like they were better than anyone and the few times I went with them to a swingers club Alyssa spent nearly the entire night talking to people, dancing with newbies and being a relaxing presence to everyone. It's what we should all strive to be and what became the basis for why I decided to produce music about the lifestyle. It is under represented and that is such a disservice to a wide spread, body positive and caring community!